Emotional Eating-FAQ’s

I’ll be talking with Dahlia Kurtz about emotional eating tomorrow on CJOB in the afternoon.  A great topic…something that affects so very many of us.  I’m not sure we get a lot of folks coming to the counselling office saying, “Help me, I eat too much”…but we get a ton of folks that are struggling …

Anchoring in Terror

She doesn’t know it, but Antoinette Tuff was my teacher today. This video is worth 16 minutes of your life.   Antoinette prevented a massive, highly dangerous man from another epic disastrously awful school shooting in Georgia yesterday. Not by pinning the man down, or calling the police, or shooting him.   She cared for …

Oprah and Brené…and me!

I come from steady, stable, secure stock. My parents both worked hard within the same organization their entire careers.  We lived in only two houses when I was growing up.  They looked–twice (very carefuly)–before they leaped. I was taught to always pay one’s credit card bill at month’s end, never spend what you didn’t have, …

Walking on new patterns

I love walking…this time of year has me outside any day that’s not raining. There’s something about walking that creates space for new thought…quiet spaces seem somehow different in a way that’s hard to explain. Walking feels good…and after, knowing that there has been a healthy long walk, it feels great. Walking forward creates movement …

Everybody’s got stuff

Melanie, our office administrator/client care manager is fond of the line: “Everybody’s got stuff”.  She uses it to remind us to have compassion with folks that rub us the wrong way, like suppliers who are late, or someone who has cut us off in traffic. Recently, a company that owns computer system we use, stopped …