Gardens of Memories

I took a Junior Tribe Member out for lunch today…as I have done on their birthdays from the time they were in preschool.  We go to the restaurant of their choice…many years it was at McDonald’s or Dairy Queen, then later, out for pizza, and lately the choice has been Cora’s. Lunchtime at school is …

Silly Fun

We had pie for lunch today.  Not for dessert. For lunch. Today is International Pi(e) Day.  At Bergen and Associates, we’re not shy about finding things to celebrate…we love to create joy…and Del, who came in for a half day today, made sure we celebrated in style. Lemon meringue pie. YUM! The pie was seriously awesome. …

Two minutes to you accessing the “best you”

Yeah, yeah…this sounds like one of those “too good to be true” snake oil salesman pitches, doesn’t it? It’s not. Hear me out…better yet, hear Amy Cuddy out. Body language is powerful…we exhibit power messages to others by how we carry ourselves, what position our arms and  legs are in, what voice tone we have, …

Cold and Broken Hallelujah

I was at the Tenor’s concert tonight at Winnipeg’s MTS Center…a good friend of mine invited me along with her…she hoped they would sing Cohen’s Hallelujah…and the didn’t disappoint.  They are well known for this song, with it being a special request last year by Her Majesty the Queen during her Diamond Jubillee last year. …

Winter

is wearing me down, and wearing me out… And when Eeyore is able to be more positive about winter than I, then we’re in trouble!  🙂 hard to have a sense of humor in this weather, isn’t it?  

Avoiding Goodness for Fear’s Sake

Even good things can feel scary. Good things can have us feel vulnerable. Vulnerability can feel scary…and so we avoid taking risks…even when the risk means a good thing. Like: applying for a desired program handing in the paper you worked hard on accepting the invitation to the party being the first to smile to …

A Man’s Desire

Too often, men don’t get to   be who they really are, say what they really feel have their outside match their inside express what they really think Men get shut down, shut out, cut off from the best parts of who they are when society, their community, maybe even their own family tells them …

Minding Dad

My history with Misericordia Health Centre is a long one…going back to before I was born.  My mother went to nursing school there. She graduated from the nursing school and went on to work decades at the Misericordia Hospital.  I remember going there once as a little girl when she went late at night for …

Living Well Together

Kelly Bernardin-Dvorak is a therapist who lives a life of working to ever deepen her understanding of her world and to have that matter–to have it impact the world in a way that changes it. She sees clients like most therapists do.  But she lives a lifestyle of deliberate community that engages with folks in …