Second Chances

I love second chances. Yesterday, I watched America’s Got Talent…cleaning and sorting in a sort of purging of my house, and using the TV show to amuse myself during the process.  I’m just not designed to be a natural organizer, but I try. And I’ll use whatever strategies I can to stick with the process. …

LTCAM and us–Good Neighbors

When we moved into 1483 Pembina about 15 months ago, we were strangers in the building.  The other tenants in the building were friendly and welcomed us…but I’m not sure I knew to expect much more than an occasional “hi” as we passed in the hallway. We’ve gotten to know some of our neighbours cuz …

And now, we interrupt your crap…

…for a brief interlude of joy.   Take it, and enjoy the minute (or actually 5 minutes)…tell me it doesn’t make you smile, or bring tears to your eyes, as you enjoy friends and family helping one man create a memory of a lifetime for his bride-to-be. We all have the constant dribble of the …

A Slip of Grace

Dear Grey Ford Fusion Guy, I don’t think you really knew, did you? You couldn’t know that I had a meeting this morning which was challenging and worrisome. That what you did was sandwiched shortly before another meeting where I went in feeling in a “liitle over my head”. You couldn’t know that I work …

The Encouragement Fiasco

Sometimes, as I endeavor to be an encouraging presence in someone else’s life, it backfires…instead of being a blessing, I walk away as the one blessed. I went to see Linda at the John Howard Society a couple of weeks back…we both have common interests in working constructively with men who get themselves into trouble. …

How vs Why

Answering “why” is hard. The first experience with “why” that I remember sticks powerfully. I was a child…I think I might have been three or four. My brother and I were brushing our teeth at the bathroom sink…and the toothpaste cap slipped out of my fingers and it fell down the bathroom drain. It must …

Requiem for the dead at ST. Paul's chapel

A Haven in Hell

New York is an amazing city to visit…one I wasn’t sure I’d ever get to. I was there last week. Wow. Wow. Wow…just wow…unbelievable. The lights on Broadway that light it up brighter than day after dark. The “M & M” store is 3 stories tall…three stories of souvenirs celebrating the little colorful candies. No …

Smile!

Smiling is good. Nothing makes me smile more than a profound connection with someone. You make me dance like a fool Forget how to breathe Shine like gold Buzz like a bee Smile, by Uncle Kracker   Valentine’s Day is a great day for celebrating relationships…with “that special someone” for certain…but for smiling at all …

Soul Restoration

To the readers from Swaziland, Argentina, Chile and Peru who were on this website yesterday…if you come back today…you may well not understand the internal feelings of winter doldrums I describe today. But if you were among the visitors from Norway, Poland, or Winnipeg, you can probably understand where I’m coming from. It’s been cold …

Family Time At Christmas

We are entering a time when families travel to spend time together with each other. Many will have vacations as business have a seasonal shut down, or time in between school terms. Teachers are off, and many others have requested vacation during this week when they were making holiday choices months ago. This time is …